People don’t react to the fact but the delivery and how you act

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I somehow don’t feel bad at all that I pretty much laughed throughout this entire 911 call. I have never seen a killer so cooperative with the Police and the Police respecting him for it. The whole conversion pretty much goes down like a business interview. Clear, honest, descriptive and factual. This kid somehow gives me a feeling of being trust worthy. You can even hear the operator symphatizing with the kid. Now, doesn’t matter how insane of a thing he did, which obviously was 360 degrees fucked up, it goes to show, that delivery of something, how you are about it, can change everybody’s perception about the situation. At times it may even surpass fact. By the end of this phone call, you’d think the kid was trapped in an emergency situation and he was being saved from the horrifying truth of a murder scene like it was the mother and the sisters fault that they died and terrified the kid. This is golden.

It’s either all of the above or this kid is playing a great game. Like in the movie Primal Fear, Edward Norton’s breakout role as the demented little fuck who tricks everyone including his lawyer into believing he has multiple personality disorder. You should really see that movie if you haven’t, it’s amazing. He gets away with all that’s he’s done simply because of well, -his delivery.

Politics immediately come to mind. Why else as humanity would we choose to hear what is to be considered popular truth, from politicians? No one wants to hear the bland unemotional delivery of a scientist. You have to dress everything up for people. In the end we are all like little children in the way we respond to things that are outside of our control. We want to babied. It is really a hard pick for me. It’s either completely emotional human flaw or heartless, soulless robotic fact. Both of them seem equally awful and remind us our eternal struggle; The search for perfection which we’ll never have.

Why not what we say but how we say it?

Its because we dont know what truth is ultimate and we base all that we think is good or bad on the reaction and the accepted morals of others.  That is why people don’t react to the fact but how others act. Deep down inside none of us are bound by an eternal morality, only the accepted conventions of the time. place and how things came to be.

The kid’s best moments in the video

“Operator: Are you on medication

Kid: Yes, allergy medication”

 

“I am a little freaked out about guns now.”

 

“This will mess me up in the future”

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    You deserve to die if you don’t have it in you to cut off your cancerous limb

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    Greatness is not born, it is made. A ruthless filtering system of promoting what benefits and destroying what harms is an experiential learning process of anyone, anything that has ever risen above. The comforting aspect of this fact is everyone, especially the greats, make terrible choices and this is not where the roads split for the average and the exceptional. The difference is consistently made during the decisions that are based on the results of those choices.

    Are you scared of pain so much that you won’t cut off the cancerous limb that will spread it’s fatality and kill you? If yes, you deserve to die. You can apply that analogy to every single decision you make to simplify and truly understand what your choices mean. A conditional set of habits, people and situations in your life always hold you at a comfortable average, where you won’t mind surviving. The exceptional are ruthless and they become such only through eliminating any habit, person or situation that serves as the cancerous limb. This hurts. Everytime. And it never gets easier. That is exactly why so few can do it and that is exactly why they are “exceptional” because they can do what others can’t. Courageously take the pain of growing.

    A tree grows full of life as the drying branches are cut. Destruction that leads to vital creation. What am I saying? Get rid of that fucking person. Get out of that fucking situation. Let it hurt, because when it heals and heal it shall as everything does, just don’t make the same mistake again.

     

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      The only thing you elect by voting is a boring way to waste time

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      Your vote doesn’t change anything. In all likelihood it’s not even counted. Even if they were, the results can even boldly be changed in front of everyone’s eyes *cough* florida *cough* and there is not a single speck of fuck you can do about it. You think anyone that lives above middle-class, gives two shits about who the broke ass sludge of human river thinks should be president?  You think anyone in power, would give you that power? It’s an illusion to prevent rioting.

      Think about it. You may think I sound like a fat guy with a tin foil hat on his head who has newspaper clippings all over his wall. Well, his mom’s basement’s wall. But, a President does campaigns, tells people all the shit he would do, gets elected, doesn’t do them, and no one does or can do anything about it. This is just cold truth, time after time. So, that is tangible evidence that the man in the position of President can lie publicly and there are no repercussions. If you fall for this repetitive pattern more than twice, you really are straight up stupid. Now, if one can do this publicly in front of televisions, without any shame nor guilt, what can and would one do when there are no cameras, reporters or any sort of documentation around? That’s simple logic. Now, add to that equation the amount of power one has. The result? One does not give a single flying fuck about what anyone thinks one should do. One or the ones who control this “One” and hire him as a frontman, entertainer.

      Democracy started in Ancient Greece and died right there. Citizens used to meet at a square and elect to put black or white stones in a bag representing their choice. In front of everyone’s eyes, yet again the bag was poured open, and the stones were counted. In front of all the citizens. Nope. not secret. Nope, not “in a computer system”, Nope not behind curtains. Right then, right there, the dominating opinion is applied. Immediately. We sit behind digital boxes. Boxes say shit, we believe it. But we have no clue who these men are, what they say means, or if its true. It’s not like anyone of us sits down and does any remarkable research that can truly spell out the truth about these men. We just base our decision on a show. A spectacle  like Cirque Du Soleil. A campaign is no different from a show. How in your clear mind can you expect this to give you an understanding of the truth. As an artist, let me fucking tell you. The show is an escape of reality and the backstage never looks pretty. If I showed you, you may even tell me you’d rather not have seen it.

      If you have time to waste, go have sex.

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        Only way to fight bullying is to actually fight

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        I applaud this woman for the simple fact that she didn’t care about anything in the world but fixing a problem her son had, at any cost. That’s a mother who deserves the title. I don’t give a shit about how it may be child abuse. Just, like I believe someone deserves to get bullied if they don’t fight back, I also believe the bully must be ready to receive whatever may come his or her way. That’s the price of the action. Any action. Be ready for consequences. I believe this is the key reason why bullying will never stop because we are not only discouraged to serve the opposite side the consequences of their action but punished when we fight back. You can do all the meaningless internet campaigns on bullying, no one gives a shit, simply because it won’t change anything. It’s bullshit that this woman gets charged for protecting her child. They should go and charge the other parent for raising shit offspring.

        What would you do if you were in her position and what do you think about her punishment?

         

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          Strong Independent Female Will Either Get Weak Dependent Male or Loneliness

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          Strong men want to dominate. They have power and that’s why they are strong. We want, allow and keep in our lives, what we are missing. What completes us. As the Rules Of Attraction goes, we look for the “-” to our “+”. This is unfortunately where the modern woman has been tricked by the cosmo-lifestyle-scene magazines into believing that men and women are equal. Wait? Did I just say men and women are not equal? Yes I did. Equality is the sameness of two given “things” however, men and women; We are not the fucking same. Starting with our biology, we are so completely different. If we can’t understand and accept that, we can never understand each other. This doesn’t mean we shouldn’t have equal rights. Of course, we should and opportunities like we do, but, I believe if you upset a certain type of balance, you must be ready to accept the unbalanced results it produces.

          The title says it all. As far as straight couple relationships are concerned; If as a female you want to go ahead and be self sufficient and “need no man”, that is great as a personal choice and I do respect it. However, expect all your boyfriends to be leeching weaklings. By eliminating your need for a man, you are no longer interesting for a man. You see, we want to be needed. If you don’t need us what the fuck are we going to do around you? Especially those of us who are strong and dominant. Don’t confuse this with oppressive machoism. We just want to feel like our presence is needed, appreciated and therefore prized. When you have no need for us, we will not seek you out. There is a certain kind of vulnerability on the surface we all look for in a woman. It is our instinctual need to provide which gives us purpose. We want her to look at us like we are her Prince, her Hero. Those of us, who understand this balance will give their everything for this attraction.

          So girls, grab the Yoga mats, hit up a pet store, go get yourself a cat, because at this rate of gender role criss crossing expect no man that can hold his ground as his own to be around your ass. Maybe as a friend :) Well, that’s not so bad you know. Are there exceptions? I’m sure. There are exceptions to everything. Einstein was Autistic but we don’t assume all such kind are geniuses. So, if you are the %1, good for you, now get the fuck outta here, this post wasn’t meant to piss -you- off.

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            Learn to focus or accept mediocrity in all you produce

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            Multitasking is the one of the least productive things you can possibly do. Do not do it unless you absolutely need to pull of an emergency job. This rule for productivity is so golden that you can apply it to anything from daily tasks to life purpose. As the famous saying goes “Jack of all trades, master of none”

            In your daily tasks to optimize your productivity, do one thing at a time. Start it, don’t interrupt your flow until you get it done.

            “What information consumes is rather obvious: it consumes the attention of its recipients. Hence, a wealth of information creates a poverty of attention and a need to allocate that attention efficiently among the overabundance of information sources that might consume it.”

            —HERBERT SIMON, recipient of Nobel Memorial Prize in Economics8 and the A.M. Turing Award, the “Nobel Prize of Computer Science”

            The information diet. The diet of the gods. Your brain is just like a computer. If you run multiple programs on it at the same time, it becomes slow, inefficient and finally; unresponsive. Learn to be selectively ignorant when it is time for you to do something. If you pay mind to the noise, you will never hear the whisper which how all great things communicate. It is a sign of being content as they don’t feel the need to convince you.

            “Just as modern man consumes both too many calories and calories of no nutritional value, information workers eat data both in excess and from the wrong sources. Lifestyle design is based on massive action— output. Increased output necessitates decreased input. Most information is time-consuming, negative, irrelevant to your goals, and outside of your influence. ”

            Timothy Ferriss, The 4-Hour Workweek

            So much for daily tasks. Every time you are multitasking remember that all you can be, is split amongst the things you are doing. You can even apply these fundamental principles to your life. Do one thing. Find your purpose. This is the only way to produce genuinely valuable output which will inarguably bring you happiness, success and of course money. When you are choosing what to do with your life, imagine you stick to one thing, one craft, one goal. How would your success and skill rate in ratio with if you changed your mind every some years?

            When you multitask, you don’t increase your ability. You decrease the quality of each individual task that consumes your given one. Learn to focus or accept mediocrity in all you produce.

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              I used to fuck Watermelons because I couldn’t get girls, now only when I don’t want to deal with one.

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              Until the age of 19, I fucked nothing but my hand and actually one Watermelon and one Vase filled with groundbeef, lubricated with 2 AA grade cracked eggs. I actually fucked the Vase with 2 of my friends, like a communal male bonding activity of sorts. That’s how it is for a boy growing up in Turkey you see. This is actually good. Some people fuck goats, chickens and similar farm animals in the villages of my beautiful country. That’s what happens when you make something taboo, people don’t forget it’s existence, that shit builds up inside of them and they freak the fuck out, like in Japan. All the finest animal porn(Eel and Octopus are the countries most popular animal porn stars) is from Japan along with Bukkake. Sex was unavailable to me mainly because of our culture but more because of the fact that I was ugly. I grew into myself way down the line. Yes, these were the types of thoughts  in my head when I visited my hometown. It shows me my progress. Because let me tell you, the only time I now fuck a Watermelon is because I would simply rather that than hearing a girl talk.

              Aside from all this sickery, it’s great to see where you came from to get a good grasp on your progress. It is only when you see your High School friends for the first time in 10 years you understand how far you’ve come. It could easily depress you to find out that more than half of them are married, some with children, are balding and wear silly clothes but it actually made me feel so good about myself. Even if for a moment, you doubt your position in life, take a look at your progress, visit your past. If you don’t see how far you’ve come, maybe you’ll see how much further you’ll need to go. This is often the case with people who move out of their hometown in search of something bigger, something new and something they can call their own. You can always go back and see your High School bully drinking in the same bar you left him, a decade ago.

              Check out some awesome photos from my visit to Turkey. One thing that makes Turkey a really unique place is that it is the only country in the world that is Secular and has accepted Islam as their religion. Turkey is the only muslim country where Government and Religion are separate. Istanbul as you can see in the pictures below has hosted 3 major empires on its soil. That is an insanely rich amount of culture to have been blessed on a place.

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                Renaissance is the proof that Christianity set humanity back 1500 years

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                If it weren’t for what Christianity did to civilization we could well have been a Type 1 Civilization; defined by Michio Kaku as beings who are able to control their Galactic environment. The space age. The Roman Empire was the crown jewel of human achievement -as we currently know it- in the ancient times on all fronts. That was some 2012 years ago. The architecture, art, science and knowledge of the cosmos were unprecedented. Most of all we practice as a modern civilization have their roots based in the knowings, and the teachings of The Roman Empire.

                The fall of this magnificent civilization, like many before it was caused because of many reasons. All Empires fall. So far, so good. There is however one force that not only was a major contributor to the fall but worse and the worst; ensured that most of all the Empire’s and humanity’s collective wisdom until that point was outlawed, destroyed and was banned from being practiced along with the fall. That force was Christianity. Christianity single handedly destroyed all we have built as humanity up until The Roman Empire and mind you, civilization itself is now known to be as old as 40,000 years. Not as monkeys but as Men, who made art, who had knowledge. That’s a long fucking time for knowledge to build. The destruction of all this has launched us into the infamous Dark Ages and made sure all the knowledge was buried until the Renaissance. Scrolls of the incredible Library of Alexandria were burned to the ground as Pagan teachings, which included knowledge about the Solar System and -yes- back then they knew that the Earth was indeed round. Thank Christianity for taking that knowledge away from Mankind for a long fucking time.

                Fast forward clock to Renaissance. Around the 1500′s. To the movement’s birthplace; the magnificent Florence of Tuscany. This is the time period when Humanity, again, in Italy has found its lost spark since the fall of The Roman Empire. Perhaps, rightfully so this is why the time period has been given the title “Renaissance” which means “Rebirth” almost as if to say; “Thank you Florence for giving us back all that Christianity has fucked up.” Leonardo Da Vinci, Michelangelo, Galileo, Botticelli and of course the patrons, the commissioners who made all of it possible; The Medici Family among many other names. In a period of not even 200 years, humanity has done what it hasn’t been able to do in the past 1500 years before it. We produced what can simply be explained as “divinity”.  Seriously we should all be sucking some serious Medici dick for the fact that we have internet right now. It’s that serious. Of course, again, the Church, the motherfucking Church was the number one enemy of the Renaissance. They tried pretty much everything to kill it. Calling it, just like today, stupid and meaningless shit like “Ungodly” and “Shameful”.

                My beautiful trip to this region of Italy, has reinforced in me once again, what I always knew from heart. Religion is such bullshit that if you refuse to see all of this, I just don’t know how to respect -you. I will of course respect your choices but not -you, in my heart. I don’t know who the fuck Jesus Christ is, I never met the man but one thing is for fucking sure, his followers fucked shit up around this place called Earth, royally. All Religion is disease. Religion is a man made institution that exploits spirituality for profit, power and control. It has done nothing but set us back and still continues to do so. Imagine how the Middle East would be if it weren’t for Islam but Christianity has definitely the biggest impact in all that is fucked.  Let that mind juice flow as it did with me while I was enjoying Italy’s beauty. Video also coming soon :)

                 

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                  Don’t seek to be comfortable but be comfortable with an eternal search

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                  I packed my bag for Florence today. I don’t want to leave where I’ve been the past two weeks. It was paradise. My time here has been so great that a part of me is worried I won’t be able to match it at my next destination. Reminds me a lot about the stages of life. We cling on to things, not remembering every-thing changes. Perhaps if we understood that fact on a deep level, we would learn to appreciate more in the moment of happening, instead of taking it for granted and complain about the world ever changing.

                  No empire stands forever, even Earth changed its crust 4 times over. Attachment will always end up in disappointment. Don’t dream of a euphoria to end up in which will never happen. There is no one moment of eternal satisfaction. In the end, the journey itself will become the item of pride. &

                  - Don’t seek to be comfortable but be comfortable with an eternal search.

                   

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                    The Truth Has No Relationship With Happiness

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                    Happiness is a state of acceptance and being content with all things that there are. Nothing else. It is your emotional reaction to the things you know as reality -whatever- that reality may be. You must expect nothing and accept everything. Happiness is a choice because at any level of being, you can choose to accept that reality and expect nothing more. It is a luxurious choice that as a tradeoff, the ones who aim at getting their names written in history books have not and will not ever attain. If acceptance happens, which is the single factor that causes happiness, trying will stop. When trying stops, when you have nothing to prove to anyone including yourself, no one will remember your name. Tragedy is the curse of all men who seek greatness.

                    Today I visited the village of Resadiye, where as a kid my mom always used to take me to buy village grown honey and milk. The locals have seen me grow up since the age of 3. I heard word that they always watch me on the internet and also heard that I was back in town. We drove down to the village only to be greeted by cheerful children and smiling elders. I have never felt so loved in my life. I was hugged by 8 people at the same time, children were hugging my leg and pulling my shirt. One of the elders stepped forward and with teary eyes he looked at me and showed me my height with his hand at the time when he first knew me. He said, “Nazimcan? Is this you? My son, little one, little trouble maker Nazimcan, now in America being our national pride.” My memory was weak, because I was so little, I remembered everyone’s face but not the names. It didn’t matter. He continued “You are the Turkish nation’s number one advertisement in the new age that the world has entered”. Such an emotional moment. I tried to refuse the compliment in humility but he would not have it so I had to smile and oblige.

                    No money. No constant rat race. No stress what so ever to erode their soul. I saw pure happiness. Do you what that means? Do you know how intense that is? That means that if any one of those people were to die right there, right at that moment, they would go away with a smile. What is more advanced? The art of happiness or the art of science? What is finding out the truth of how things work and what they really are if we can’t accept our own beings happily? It’s not that those people don’t know what technology is, it’s that they are content with how they are. They need no business with it, because the system they have makes them happy. Of course, in comparison in my entire time in America, the land of greatness (and I’m not mocking, it really is) I have never seen, met and spent time with people who are more unhappy, dissatisfied, insecure and worried. This constant state of being unsettled allows for constant trying and hard work but like I said, it is a tradeoff and you do trade your happiness in.

                    Joining the nearby village elders in a game of backgammon

                     

                     

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